Can Arguing With Your Partner Be A Good Thing?

No, I’m not saying for you to get into a shouting match with your partner. But let’s face it, you’re bound to disagree at some point. You have unique viewpoints, habits, and experiences that might not align with your partners’. And that is perfectly healthy. In fact, that’s what makes your partner intriguing. So think of arguments as an opportunity for your partner to get to know you. It’s a chance for you to express yourself and share your unique perspective. Don’t try to “win” the argument. Just explore the disagreement in a nonjudgmental way. If you think about arguments in this way, it will probably reduce a lot of tension, and maybe, even improve your relationship.